
27 Years old living in Vadodara(India) and working in MNC, Like others my story is also same the shift from needy child to selfreliant adult. There were struggles in finding an identity, carving a future, meeting a mate, friendship upheavals and job distresses. I believe in persevering when all the odds are against you, when every cell in your body tells you that you can't, but you go ahead and do anyway. I believe in taking risks and embracing a life of uncertainity.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
beautiful heart
i have borrowed this story from some one .................
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley। A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said "Why, your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine।" The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but it was full of scars. It had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing.
The people stared -- how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought? The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine. Mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared."
"Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- giving love, is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his.
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are. The young man gave a piece of his perfect beautiful heart, for which he became famous, only to become a person who people would now look up to. Sometime Imperfection in non materialistic things can beautify the inner you.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Tribute to brave boys of Mother India
Friday, November 28, 2008
फर्श पर देखो, केवल आहें
चारो तरफ़ खून फैला हुआ है
न पता चलता कि हिदू का या मुस्लिम का है
न पता चलता है कि भारतीय का या विदेशी का है
देखो एक बार फ़िर से देखो ...
फर्श पर देखो, केवल आहें.........
कैसा ये सौदा है मौत के बदले मे मौत का
आज हम लड़ नही सकते धर्म के नाम पर
क्योकि इस खून से पता ही नही चलता धर्म का
अब किस बात को मुद्दा बनोगे
अगली बार देश को मौत देने का
देखो एक बार फ़िर से देखो ...
फर्श पर देखो, केवल आहें.................
न पता चलता कि हिदू का या मुस्लिम का है
न पता चलता है कि भारतीय का या विदेशी का है
देखो एक बार फ़िर से देखो ...
फर्श पर देखो, केवल आहें.........
कैसा ये सौदा है मौत के बदले मे मौत का
आज हम लड़ नही सकते धर्म के नाम पर
क्योकि इस खून से पता ही नही चलता धर्म का
अब किस बात को मुद्दा बनोगे
अगली बार देश को मौत देने का
देखो एक बार फ़िर से देखो ...
फर्श पर देखो, केवल आहें.................
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
The Cab Ride

So I walked to the door and knocked. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.
After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.
There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.
She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb
She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated'.
'Oh, you're such a good boy', she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'
'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly.
'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice'.
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued. 'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. 'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.
We drove through the neighbourhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.
Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.
Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
'How much do I owe you?' she asked, reaching into her purse.
'Nothing,' I said
'You have to make a living,' she answered.
'There are other passengers,' I responded.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said.
'Thank you.'
I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.
I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?
What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.
But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.
PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID, …… BUT ….. THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.
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